As beautiful as this season is, there is also this emptiness and uncomfortable sadness that, no matter how hard we may try to push it down, keeps bubbling back up to the surface. It happens at the oddest of times, bringing on a string of tears and a rush of blood throughout my body, sometimes making us want to hide or scream at the top of my lungs, or just burst out in tears! Reminders of our loved ones now passed on are everywhere, no matter the time they have been gone, but it is particularly hard that first year. Everywhere we turn, we see their faces and hear their voices and laughter. While we may hate it and love it at the same time, often it brings on glimmers of hope and a sense of peace, and then other times, it stirs within us a concoction of emotions that don’t make any sense. This Christmas, as we gather around the table, with our family, friends, or just a friend. Perhaps even alone, take notice of that empty seat and try to put on a brave face. We will share stories and try to enjoy our time together, but the void will cause us to slip into different places of grief.
But, where our words actions, and emotions will usually fall short, God’s Word is perfect and always brings us hope. Maybe this verse will help – 2 Corinthians 1:3 to praise God even in our pain because He is the One Who comforts us in our times of trouble and need. It’s so encouraging to know that we serve a God of compassion, A God that meets us where we are and extends His love and mercy, amid our suffering and grief. Just knowing that He sees us and that we are never forgotten should give us a sense of peace. Tis the season, HIs season of Love, HOPE, Grace, Faith, Peace, and JOY!