Just A quick chat

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Good Sunday evening everyone, I hope all is well your way. Well, I guess one should never speak until the deed is complete. The couple who had a contract on my house decided that the 15-year-old AC unit they wanted replaced for 15,000 dollars for a new inside and outside unit was a necessity. Although it still works, it is 15 years old and they wanted it to be up-to-date energy efficient. I had to decline because I was not going to lose 15,000 more dollars. I had already discounted it as low as I could go. So, I’m here in this house, my home for 20 years, and I’m not really upset about it. I’m scheduling my hip surgery for March and at least this home is familiar. It does have a high mortgage and I have turned off my cable and internet for the time being and a few other things so that I can survive until my hip surgery is over and I’m back on my feet and I’ll get a part-time to full-time job. It’s OK because I was going to walk away with 170,000 dollars minus 15,000 dollars if I did the air conditioning unit and I had not found one single thing even in a two-bedroom for that price and was going to have to figure out a way to finance the rest of it. I truly wondered week after week while something wasn’t coming available why I couldn’t find something decent to move to, now I know it wasn’t God’s plan. For whatever reason, his plan was for me to stay in this home for the time being. Isn’t it amazing how God works? He kept me here in my home where I feel secure and safe. Yes, it is more expensive to live here and that will be difficult for me, but I know He will provide a way. I have a lot to do around here now that the mister has moved a lot of his stuff, there’s messes everywhere and I did a lot of cleaning today and I had to lay down, my back and hip were killing me. Tomorrow, I plan to get back at it and fill out both of my huge garbage cans because the trash will pick up on Tuesday. I hope you’ve all had a good weekend, as I said in the beginning, I hope today has been a good day and you’re all doing well. Take care of yourselves. I’m keeping all of my At Home With Debbie’s Facebook page followers in all of my prayers. I asked that you keep me in your prayers as well, as I navigate life’s, big changes! Today was a good day, I pray tomorrow will be even better for all of us. Have a good week everyone.

Love

29 thoughts on “Just A quick chat”

  1. I’m sorry to hear about everything you’re going through right now, it seems like everything happens at once,doesn’t it? It will be hard to live without TV and internet once you’ve had it, it will be so quiet in your house.You’ve heard the saying, when God closes a door He opens a windows. He knows your needs, He hears and He will answer. I’m praying for you my dear friend, take care of yourself and get some rest, much love to you.❤️❤️

    1. Thank you dear, yes He does know all our needs. I look forward to seeing how He works this all out for my good. I know He will- take care and I hope to be back soon with amazing news

  2. As I read about the deal falling through on your house I thought “God’s Timing” God knew this wasn’t the right time to sell your house. He has something else planned for you!! Good luck with the gastroenterologist appointment. I still need to find a new one. Pace yourself when cleaning out your house. You’re doing the right thing by resting when you’re tired and sore. There is lots I need to do around our place once the Christmas tree comes down.
    My mom Della came home Christmas Eve day. It was nice to have her home in time for Christmas. It has been a challenging time with her being weak and unable to walk. I wish she had been sent to rehab but she was declined right before her surgery. She’s making a slow recovery day by day. I know God is in control and leading the way. Take care 🙏❤️

    1. Thank you dear friend, you feel like I’ve been on a long roller coaster ride! Today I disconnected my cable and Internet, so I’m not sure I’ll be able to get on here very much on my phone. If I don’t have Internet, we shall see just can’t afford it right now but you know I’m alive. I’ll survive. I still have laryngitis and I felt worse this morning, but I had some things I had to do around my house get the trash out and a bunch of things that I had cleaned out so I had bag After bag After bag and had to drag out to the big trash cans because they pick up in the morning. I’m gonna rest for a little while so good to see you. I hope you’re well my friend take care.

  3. Debbie, Everything happens for a reason. Maybe this was not a no, but not yet time. Prayers for your needs and wants!
    Love you

    1. You are absolutely correct and I do believe that but today when I had to call and cut off my Internet and my cable, I cried and I asked God why? It comes down to eating and medication or cable and Internet. I chose eating in medication thinking that I was going to leave this house and not have a Mortgage put me in a better financial position however, as I told someone else here on their comment, I’m alive and that’s what matters this too shall pass. It’s so good to see you and I hope you’re well. I’m not sure how much I’ll be able to get on if I don’t have Internet, but I’m certainly going to give it my best.

  4. Hi Debbie, I am happy you see God’s hand in your life. You can be reassured all is well. He’s got it taken care of. Blessings!

    1. Oh my sweet friend I know He is going to take care of me. But this afternoon I had a pity party when I turned off my cable and Internet because it came down to eating and medication or cable and Internet even at the lowest price it was $94 a month. I can’t do that right now. I thought I was gonna be leaving here and not have a mortgage but when you have $1000 mortgage that takes a big big big bite out of my Social Security anyway enough of that I’m alive and I’m feeling a little better this afternoon. I’ve had the flu I still have laryngitis and still feel a little weak, but I’ve been taking care of business here at the house and doing the things that needed to be done. I hope you’re well, my friend and that 2026 is good to you.

  5. God’s plan is always the best. Take your time, have the surgery and heal. Your friends are there to help take care of you. You have a cozy, lovely home and if/when you move it will be for the right new home. You are doing all of the right things and everything will work out. You are in my prayers.

    1. Thank you, my friend. I have a long way to go, but I’ll get there and I’ll be better for it. There’s a lot going on here financially I’ve got the flu and I’ve had laryngitis for a few days, but I’ve still had to get up and push through and get things straight around here after the mister moved out. It was just a hot mess that he left. I got all that taken care of today, I cut off my Internet and my cable so if you don’t see me for a while, it’s because I don’t have Internet and I can’t access you guys without it on my phone. I don’t think we shall see anyway it was something I had to do financially it’s upsetting to me because I think well what am I gonna do? I guess I’ll read a lot. Absolutely no TV whatsoever is kind of difficult and no Internet so you can’t get on your phone. I guess I’m saying no entertainment whatsoever. I guess God wants me all to himself. This too shall pass and things will get better. I’m alive and I’m grateful. I hope you’re doing well, dear. Thank you for your comment. It was so good to see you.

  6. Hey my sweet friend. God already has tomorrow worked out in your favor. Months from now you’ll see what He saved you from by staying. There’s so many of us that love you and our prayers are reaching the throne room on your behalf. Stand in peace knowing you are loved, you’re chosen for this. Sending love and prayers your way.

  7. Praying for you as you get ready for surgery. Prayers that God will work everything out for you🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  8. I know everything will work out. Your right…God knows what’s best for us. Hoping for good news at the Dr’s tomorrow….but whatever it is….I’ll figure it out. Prayers for you Deb….your on my mind so much that your ears should be constantly ringing! Xo

  9. Oh goodness Debbie. You are right , Gods plan. Sending tightest hugs. Glad you are listening to your body when it needs rest.

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