You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you” (Isaiah 26:3, ESV
My husband and I are each the first-born children in our families. Although there isn’t any science behind first-born personalities, psychologists have taken note of the common traits regarding those who have been born first among their siblings.
In general, firstborn children are responsible, assertive, task-oriented, perfectionistic, and supporters of authority. With all of those leadership characteristics, a great amount of weight can be placed upon the shoulders of the individuals prone to be rule-followers and goal-chasers. This can often lead to much stress and anxiety if not constantly kept in check. When two firstborns marry each other, they can run together with fervor to achieve dreams and become very productive as a family, but the home also needs peace to reign in it most of all. And not just a “problem-free” type of peace – a peace that passes all understanding regardless of what is happening. Only the Lord Jesus Christ can offer us this kind of perfect peace.
In God’s providence, one of the reasons we named our firstborn child, Isaiah, was because of a very special verse found in the book of Isaiah regarding this kind of perfect peace that my husband and I know that we need every single day. Right in the middle of a prophecy regarding the land of Judah, the prophet Isaiah uttered these beautiful words about the Lord and His peace in chapter 26:
For many of us, these last few years have felt a bit unstable. We have all experienced some form of worry, stress, and anxiety from the unknown future. From viruses, suddenly losing loved ones, empty store shelves, job losses, rising home prices, and hefty grocery bills week after week – we have all needed to find perfect peace. Our answer is found in fixing our gaze upon the Lord and anchoring our minds to His unwavering truth. No matter what is going on around us, we can find unshakable confidence in the Lord because He is ever-faithful to us. This is why staying in the Word consistently is so important when experiencing stressful or unstable times. Faith comes by hearing the Word of God (Romans 10:17) and the more we study the Scriptures, the stronger our trust in God becomes.
The Word of God is so powerful, and the more we study and meditate upon it, the stronger our foundation will be in Christ, and we will continually know how to look to Him any time stress and anxiety try to overtake us. Let us always be quick to ask the Lord for His sustaining grace and help in our time of need, looking to Him because He cares for us. No matter what is going on around us, even if it seems like everything is falling apart, we must remember that God holds the entire universe in His hands. He is completely sovereign. Nothing passes through His hands by accident. He is in total control and has a great plan regarding all of it; We can trust in Him and rest in His great, perfect peace. Let us set our mind upon Him.
I am a Middle child, Whom My Mother always treated me as a first born, She always said, I was the Dependable, responsible one. I was delegated Alot of the jobs, the older two should have done, but we’re not trusted too! Lol!!
Janice, thank you for sharing
Love everything you share. I’m the youngest but have that A personality. And want to fix everything.
So very true. God has proven to be completely faithful to all of His promises. He never leaves us and carries us wherever we are too weak to take another step.
No truer words were ever spoken. Thank you for these words of wisdom that we need to know. My husband and I agree that there is no such thing as an accident in a world ruled by a sovereign God. Thank you, Debbie.
May I just say Amen!!! Thank you. I lost my mother in 2016, my husband in 2018 and my son in 2020 with 3 friends in between. It has been hard, but the Lord and his word holds one up.
My go to verses when anxiety rates it’s uglynhead and threatens my peace!
“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your graciousness be known to everyone. The Lord is near. Don’t worry about anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.“
Philippians 4:4-7 CSB
https://bible.com/bible/1713/php.4.4-7.CSB
Thanks for the encouragement Debbie!
Beautiful comforting words to start my day! Thankyou Debbie and have a blessed day!🙏🏻❤
Amen❤️
I am a first born. I see myself in the common traits. 😊