We all live through trouble and painful experiences, some far worse than others. If we dwell on those things, we make ourselves captives. Focusing on what has been done to us keeps the experiences alive in our minds, stirring up emotions, reviving hurt, fanning anger, and wanting revenge, as well as making us see ourselves as “a victim.” Thus, we label ourselves as a casualty, a person duped or tricked, a loser and fool, a quarry for sacrifice, a scapegoat for another’s sins. Putting on those identity markers is crushing to our spirit, and can keep people from taking the first frightening step toward recovery. If we see ourselves as “survivors” people who suffered greatly but came through with body and soul alive, heroes who found the strength to cope and rise above the sins done to us—we can move ahead. So, put your faith in God, and recognize what’s been done has hurt you and maybe held you back. It’s time to give it to God and get ready for your breakthrough.
