Being From The South-

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I acknowledge that numerous individuals with southern roots follow along here on this Facebook page, having been born and raised in the south, and continuing to call it home. As someone who was born, raised, and has spent their entire 70 years in Alabama, I can confidently say that I am deeply grateful. Often, people misconstrue Southerners as being ignorant, backwards, and lacking common sense, employing various pejorative terms. However, my family, with the exception of my parents and sibling, resided in rural areas during their formative years. When I refer to the country, I mean remote, isolated areas. Although we lived in the city, in a suburban neighborhood with streetlights and limited space for gardening, we frequently visited our rural relatives and were exposed to their lifestyle, which revolved around gardening, horses, and cattle. While I do not consider myself a country girl, I have a profound appreciation for rural life. Recently, I visited a place where one of my aunts and uncles resided during my childhood and took some photographs. Although much had changed, the area remained as breathtakingly beautiful as ever. I vividly recall getting on my first horse at the age of six, jumping a ditch, and falling off. My father’s advice was to get back on the horse, but I was fearful. This experience serves as a powerful metaphor for life, where we often become apprehensive about revisiting experiences that have caused us pain or discomfort. We may be reluctant to love again, take on a new job, or trust someone anew. Nevertheless, I did get back on that horse, and I thoroughly enjoyed my experiences with horseback riding during my childhood, adolescence, and early teenage years. This experience has taught me the importance of persevering and getting back to living life to the fullest, regardless of the challenges or setbacks we may face. I acknowledge that my writings may not resonate with everyone, but they are an integral part of my life, and I hope that they may serve as a source of inspiration for those who have been hurt or held back in some way. I am proud of those who have mustered the courage to get back on the horse, so to speak, and I encourage those who have not yet done so to take the leap and reclaim control of their destiny.

10 thoughts on “Being From The South-”

  1. I often think of my childhood and so wish my grandchildren could experience country living. I spent my summers with my grandparents in the country. We raised gardens ( snapped many green beans), milked a cow and separated the milk, played and fished in the creek and dressed many a chicken. Might say we lived off the ground. It brings joy to my heart to think of that kind of life, just wish it could be passed on to the young ones. This world is so different. I pray for changes and protection!🙏❤️

    1. Oh Roberta, I could not agree with you more the world just seems upside down. We look back into us. They were such easier times. I don’t know that they were, but I truly think they were.

  2. Hey Debbie!
    Life used to be like that where I live. Right next door to where I grew up. Now, I know very few of our neighbors. Most of the ones that I do are because it’s been over issues, not being friendly. They’re building houses everywhere they can stick one. It makes me so sad.

  3. I haven’t had really bad health problems as some have. I haven’t been married but once and we are still together after 61 years on July 10th. I remember growing up watching my granny wash clothes in the yard in a wash pot. I helped chopping up the pieces of wood to help feed the fire. I haven’t had a lot of “things” that other people, my age, had, but I don’t feel I missed out on anything. Born and raised here in Alabama. So thankful for this. Thank you for sharing with us, Debbie.

    1. Well, Mary as you know or may not I have been married twice. Eight years to my first husband and 44 years I was married to the man I’ve always called Mr. Shabby. Anyway, is your time life when I was a kid that is a given all the modern technology and the craziness going on in the world just makes children not know how to entertain themselves and not be happy and content with that and I think it creates more bad than it does good that’s just my opinion being out in the country or being out where they’re on land and they know nature and they’re not stuck to their cell phones or iPads makes a huge difference to me. I’m glad to hear that you haven’t really had any health issues to speak of. I hope you continue to be blessed that way. Take care and thank you for always commenting. You’re such a sweet, sweet soul.

  4. I live within half an hour from where I was born here in Virginia. I have lived in several places in my State but have never considered leaving unless I were to get a vacation home. My ancestors all came to Virginia from different countries. We have all four seasons. At my age I often think of growing up in my wonderful small hometown where everyone knew everyone. I follow my hometown on Facebook and am so disappointed in the residents as they complain and accuse one another about problems they see instead of working to fix things themselves like my parents and their friends did. And my generation where I live now. This next generation, I call the me generation, wants everything done their way and wants someone, anyone, to do it but not do it themselves. Did we do this, did we spoil our children? I don’t know. I just know life doesn’t work as well these days. Guess that’s why I think about my life growing up in my wonderful hometown here in Virginia.

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