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Being From The South-

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I acknowledge that numerous individuals with southern roots follow along here on this Facebook page, having been born and raised in the south, and continuing to call it home. As someone who was born, raised, and has spent their entire 70 years in Alabama, I can confidently say that I am deeply grateful. Often, people misconstrue Southerners as being ignorant, backwards, and lacking common sense, employing various pejorative terms. However, my family, with the exception of my parents and sibling, resided in rural areas during their formative years. When I refer to the country, I mean remote, isolated areas. Although we lived in the city, in a suburban neighborhood with streetlights and limited space for gardening, we frequently visited our rural relatives and were exposed to their lifestyle, which revolved around gardening, horses, and cattle. While I do not consider myself a country girl, I have a profound appreciation for rural life. Recently, I visited a place where one of my aunts and uncles resided during my childhood and took some photographs. Although much had changed, the area remained as breathtakingly beautiful as ever. I vividly recall getting on my first horse at the age of six, jumping a ditch, and falling off. My father’s advice was to get back on the horse, but I was fearful. This experience serves as a powerful metaphor for life, where we often become apprehensive about revisiting experiences that have caused us pain or discomfort. We may be reluctant to love again, take on a new job, or trust someone anew. Nevertheless, I did get back on that horse, and I thoroughly enjoyed my experiences with horseback riding during my childhood, adolescence, and early teenage years. This experience has taught me the importance of persevering and getting back to living life to the fullest, regardless of the challenges or setbacks we may face. I acknowledge that my writings may not resonate with everyone, but they are an integral part of my life, and I hope that they may serve as a source of inspiration for those who have been hurt or held back in some way. I am proud of those who have mustered the courage to get back on the horse, so to speak, and I encourage those who have not yet done so to take the leap and reclaim control of their destiny.

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