Open up, let’s help each other.

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I do not talk about politics on my Facebook page, ever I have had no desire to do that but I do think there are many of us that are worried, and have health issues already so when something this BIG hits in our State, our Town we have a tendency to worry more. I want to hear your thoughts. I think that there are many of you that need to get it out, talk to others. Rest assured that when you open up here if someone disagrees in a kind manner that can be discussed. If someone comes at anyone here that wants to share their thoughts, their fears, or helps others think about this in a positive manner the floor is yours.

I think that if we stay in as much as we can RIGHT now and not go into places we do not HAVE to, that will help cut back on more people getting infected. I am doing my part for me and if I should have it and not yet know I am staying away from others and not eating out, shopping, nothing like that. I think many of us thought at first, well it will not make it here. If you watch the news at all you know that Italy was infected most likely because of China doing business with them over leather, and China had bought some of there leather factories there. China is known for making knock off goods and they use cowhide and leather, as well as real designer items, so that puts that in perspective.

We must take each day as it comes, do all that we can for ourselves, help out our neighbors and others when possible. So many Seniors can not get out or totally afraid to do so. If you are in a position to help and want to do so, do it. We all have to deal with this in our own way. Let us hear your thoughts, concerns, anything that you might be thinking or want to share.

Much love and comfort going out to each of you, from me. Just know what you say here will be received with respect always. Anyone that wants to try to bash this one or that one will not get published I control that. We are here to help, empower and support each other no matter what our status is in other areas. Thank you, for understanding.

32 thoughts on “Open up, let’s help each other.”

  1. Reading all the comments makes me want to cry for so many who have so much fear of the unknown😢 I also live in Texas and there have been three confirmed cases in Lubbock, one in Crane, Tx and possibly one in Monahans,Tx. Our little town is within sixty minutes to two hours from these towns. I am sixty eight and don’t remember ever having these circumstances happening.
    For me, I need to trust our Heavenly Father and have Faith that this will end soon and life can get back to normal again!
    My prayers are for those who have compromising immune systems, health care folks, folks who work in restaurants and bars because they depend on tips for a living! For all the children, parents, school faculties who need to stay home. Our governor doesn’t want meetings of more ten people to meet, our state offices have been closed also! Our oilfield workers are getting laid off or big pay cuts, too! Oilfield folks are use to downturns,though! Lifting these followers up in prayer, Debbie. And you and your family as well.🙏💕💕

    1. And now a confirmed case in Midland,Tx of a man in his 60’s😢I have family living there and we are 45 minutes northwest from Midland! Praying for this man’s health to be restored and peace for his family!🙏 Unplugging from news for awhile now.

    2. I know Susan, I am with you. Some have written to me personally, it is a sad and scary time in the world, very much so. But, we can come here and share hope, pray for each other and be here. I am here for all of you.

    1. That’s right Linda, all this hoarding and panic make things worse for us all. I am staying tuned in to the news online about the new cases and how America is doing with this pandemic. I do not watch it 24/7 for me that would create panic, for someone else is brings them comfort. Have a wonderful day.
      Love,
      Debbie

    2. WOW, yes I am still here taking care of ex. The stores here are far better supplied than they are elsewhere. I don’t talk about this much as it’s very difficult to take care of him when I’d rather be with my children and grandchildren. Doing my best as I am accused, persecuted stuck here with him. First it was I was too sick to leave, then there was the weather, now its because of the quarantine. I just can only go each day is a new day with Jesus 💜I am most thankful for Jesus, as Jesus is the only one that keeps me moving, pleasant, joyful, happy even though I’m here having to listen to him calling me things that hurt. He’s never trusted me nor don’t think that he knows what true love is. He might be very depressed, manic- bipolar I can’t keep going on about him. Just trying to take care of him. Sometimes he can be sweet, as I see it ,it’s only because I am here to help pay the bills and his bills and necessities. Thank you, Debbie for all your posts, writing and your love to me. Jesus does work through us. I enjoy being able to converse with you and really like what you have to say. Jesus is my Rock as he’s your rock too. Thank you Jesus 💜 I really do think that I am still here as it’s got to be according to God’s will 💜

    3. Linda, I do agree with you. We all should be praying on our knees. In order to heal our nation and to be humble too.Thank you Jesus. 💜

  2. Hi everyone. I am from northern Minnesota where there are no cases of COVID 19 but we are taking all the precautions mandated by our governor. My fear is for my 92 year old father who still lives alone. Can I visit him ? Can I see my Grandchildren who live a mile down the road. We are trying to stay away. Although my husband still works in a mill….. we are trying to keep our distance. I want to help out with the grandkids but am afraid that if I have to help my dad I could bring something to him. So many questions and frustration with the people who are not taking this seriously 😒 Stay healthy everyone. Thanks for the safe vent. Jan

    1. Thank you, Jan for your comment. Bless your heart it is a hard question to answer, both seeing your father and your grandchildren. We have about 30 cases here in Alabama, and I am staying away from everyone. I have been working in my home and going out and getting fresh air as we are not on top of each other here in my neighborhood. I just think that it is best for me in case I am carrying it, and to keep me away from anyone that might be. I have a low immune system so I want to stay as safe as I can at this time. I am blessed to be retired at 64 and do not have to be at a job. You take care of you, I pray that there is no outbreaks period where you are, how awesome would that be?
      Blessings,
      Debbie

      1. The first one has been reported yesterday. Staying away from people and only going to grocery store when I have to. Feeling a slight panic settling in for supplies if the lock down. But I know we will be okay. We live in the country so fresh air is always there. Thanks Debbie. Take care my FB friend 😊

        1. Jan, know that I try to check the post here every day! Feel free to come here with your fears and talk through them. I or someone will see your posts and talk with you. We will try to encourage you as and others as well.
          Love,
          Debbie

  3. For those who live in areas where the pandemic hasn’t made its fury made know, I can understand that they may not understand why all the restrictions. However I live in the greater Washington D C area where every phase of life has changed. I am also part of the risk group being 76 & while my health is fairly good this could change if I got the illness. My husband recently passed due to lung cancer & COPD. If he were alive this would be life threatening to him. There are mandatory closings of schools, restaurants, movie theaters and anywhere people would go in groups etc. I had an eye doctor appointment today where they are only seeing a few patients, rescheduling others . Grocery shopping is another issue. Last week people were scared & cleaned out every store. The stores are trying to resupply but it’s not worth exposing myself to someone’s carelessness by going to see if the stores have what I need so I stay home. Is staying home a chore? No, not when you think of the consequences. I feel badly for those who have now lost their incomes & pray that this can be controlled so they can go back to work.
    For me my Faith is in Christ that He will guide everyone through this difficult time. God leads me through everything. He has gotten me through many difficult periods and has never abandoned me. I ask that everyone who reads your blog join me in prayer today & every day.

    1. Barbara, we did not have one known case here in Alabama and last week they cleaned out our groceries too. Toilet paper was the first to go, why? God bless you sweet one. Like the rest of us now asked to stay home period unless we have to get out, here. We are doing our part to keep others safe and ourselves by not going out and about. Join in with you in prayer my FB friend, be safe. Were here for you if you need to talk.
      Love,
      Debbie

  4. Debbie, thank you for your kindness and caring. I too do not fully understand what is happening with the appearance of this virus. I am 75 and have a compromised immune system so I am staying in and hope and pray that this does not get as bad as it was in Italy. I am turning in early since I did not sleep last night.
    Prayers and hugs,
    Barbara

    1. Barbara, my sweet FB friend, I pray that you sleep well tonight. Yes, if you do not have to get out do not. We The People need to be praying day and night for this to leave as fast as it came, In Jesus precious name.
      Sweet Dreams

  5. Thanks, Debbie, for caring so much for others and for trying to alleviate the stress we all are feeling over what is happening here and around the world. I am fearful living in NY state since we apparently have become a major hotspot for this virus in the country. My husband has just recently ended his chemo and radiation treatments and we have been isolated due to his low immunity since last June until about a month ago. Now, we have to be isolated again, and it is so hard. I fear for his health. I try to stay positive, but only God can see our path through this and I continue to seek His comfort through it all. Stay safe and God Bless!!

    1. (((Hugs))) and prayers for peace of mind for you and your husband. Right now both you and he need that. You are right God sees all and He has both of you, just love each other and enjoy each day. We are none promised tomorrow coronavirus or not. Keeping you both in my prayers.
      Love,
      Debbie

  6. Because of this crisis I’m not allowed in to see mom in assisted living. She is 97 and in pretty good health considering her age. They are having to eat meals in their rooms and there are no activities happening. I’m worried about her mental state as well as other residents in assisted living facilities. This morning when I talked to her she said she was very down and could just cry. I think the isolations is really going to have negative impacts on our older population. Believe me I understand this is a very vulnerable population and do not wish anyone to become sick but there needs to be some kind of consideration to their mental health. I don’t know what the answer is but my heart breaks. I have been calling my mom 3 times a day. I will even go tomorrow and be outside her window so she can see me. This is a very troubling time in so many levels. Praying for quick resolution. 🙏🙏🙏

    1. Nadine, I hear you and I can understand that has to be extra hard for you not to see her, then to know she is down and you can not be there. I will keep you and your Mother in my prayers. Praying this virus will leave us alone soon and you can get back to seeing your Mom. My youngest son’s first baby is due in April, they have been told that if there is any threat of this virus in the next few weeks and she is due in a few weeks that FAMILY will not be allowed in, period. She has to have a C Section so they will be there for 3 days. So, I will have a new grandson that I can not see or hold or touch and be there with my son on such a grand blessed. Not exactly what you are facing I know this, but still I wanted to be there with my and for my son on this very special day. God bless you, and your precious mother.
      Love,
      Debbie

      1. Thank you for your prayers. I will also be praying for you and your family. I pray your grandson is very healthy and your daughter-in-law heals well. We have to hold tight to our faith and trust God to hear our prayers.

    2. I am loving the idea of going outside of her window to see her! THAT will be great for her, to see that You are OK as well! God Bless!

  7. I’m at home also. I live in Texas and have family and friends in different parts of the state I also have friends all over the country. I don’t know anyone who has the virus or even knows someone who has it. I’m just wondering how many here personally have gotten sick with it or know someone who has. My immune system is suppressed and I do have reason to be concerned but something tells me that this is about using this virus to distract us and possibly something much bigger is going on that we’re unaware of. I realize I could be totally wrong, but our economy was thriving and this is already hurting the small businesses. There are people who won’t survive this financially. I’m staying home, doing what I’m supposed to, but I have a lot of questions.

    1. Terri, you stay safe sweetheart. As far as your feelings I’m sure many wonders about this virus. The way it started is what gets me. I have my beliefs and I’ll keep them in but, it is suspect to me. Have a blessed evening, remember to take care of you, ok.
      Love,
      Debbie

  8. I agree, I don’t post political views on page, and try not to respond to negative political views. Some people can’t agree to disagree. I try not to fear what is happening and things behind the scenes we know nothing about. It is like everything is coming to a halt slowly. With that said, we need to be able to share our concerns with one another. Hang in there Debbie,thanks for your encouraging posts and words.

    1. My sweetest Debera, that is why I started this post here you can come back anytime day or night any day and voice your thoughts. Come back and read the post here and share your support to any comment or comments that you feel you can do some good. That’s what we are here to do to help encourage each other and keep the panic down. Love to you, have a great evening.
      Debbie

  9. I will be 67 in August and driving 1 -1/2 hours to and from work and gone from home for 12 hours. I decided to retire on March 31st and enjoy my family and take care of myself. My teammates received an email from our Assistant Director telling them to bring their laptops to work on Monday and get them set up to work from home. I didn’t receive that email and don’t have a laptop. I am the oldest person in our whole HIM department and drive the furthest of anyone. Due to my age I decided and asked if I could take “Paid Time Off” and retire when my time is up. So that’s what I’m doing. I’m in the medical field and work in a 3 story building. We don’t have visitors to come where we are.

    I’m very concerned about people and this virus 🦠 that’s spreading quickly and out of control. We have no idea who has been where or if they’ve been around someone with the virus.

    This may sound horrible and now I’m afraid all of the money in my 401k may be gone and I won’t be able to make it when I retire. I want to be able to work with newborn babies born to drug addicted women. This is volunteer work and I feel this will be so fulfilling.

    God is with and will always be with us. People have turned away from God, not everyone or all of them. I continue to pray for people and their health and well-being.

    Love to you and your family Debbie. ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

    1. Very wise you are Elaine, you hit on some key points about no knowing who has been where, etc. I think we as a nation have leaned away from God as well, myself included. God has allowed this pandemic to take place for a reason, I believe that and nothing can change my mind here. However, some will say He is a loving God and does not allow suffering, hmmm I think the good Book talks a great deal on God disciplining His children. I loved my children with all my heart but I disciplined them. That doesn’t make me a bad parent. It is trying to teach them right from wrong as He does us. He is with us and never leaves us even in times like this. We have to turn it over to Him, and at times it can get the better of us. Thank you for sharing, welcome to retirement. It is pretty nice.
      Love,
      Debbie

      1. Thank you Debbie. I am really looking forward to retirement and want to stay busy. My granddaughter is staying with me during the day while her parents work.
        Thank you for all of your encouragement and support and for opening up with honesty. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love you

        1. Enjoy her Elaine. I was told today that no one but my son will be able to be at the hospital when my new grandson is born. My son will be there alone, I was so upset but it is for safety reason by the Hospital with this virus. He is due in the next 4 weeks or sooner. Love you, too my sweet friend.
          Debbie

      2. Interesting that today I spoke with a dear friend, & she too said it is a time to pray, that God is teaching us all lesson! I am praying for this to pass, and that many will call upon HIS name! Also, for several friends going through various cancer treatments at this time. Trouble is everywhere, but he promised never to leave us! Only HE is available 24/7, and as near as a prayer ~

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